For the woman ready to come home to herself

You’ve said “not tonight” five times this week and feel guilty about every single one.

If you can't remember the last time sex felt good — or the last time you even wanted it — you're not broken. You're depleted. And you deserve more than another night of coming up with another reason…
I work with women who are done feeling disconnected from their bodies, and ready to actually do something about it.

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It is time to:
RECLAIM YOUR PLEASURE
REIGNITE YOUR PASSION
EMBODY YOUR SENSUALITY

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Meet Emily

I’m Emily Matthews, a Melbourne-based sex coach, educator and speaker helping women and vulva owner’s come back to their bodies, reclaim their pleasure, confidence, and connection to self.

Whether you’re exploring your sexuality for yourself or navigating a relationship that’s lost its spark, my work is about helping you reconnect with your sensual self — without shame, pressure, or performance.

I support women who are ready to stop repeating old patterns, discover what they truly need and desire, and build the confidence to express it — both in their own lives and within their relationships.

Through an integrative and somatic approach, I weave together embodiment practices, trauma-informed coaching, and practical tools to help women feel safe in their bodies, reignite desire, and experience more pleasure, intimacy, and confidence — every day, not just in the bedroom.

This is your invitation to stop performing pleasure and start living it — fully, freely, and unapologetically.

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Emily Matthews – Melbourne women’s sex coach and pleasure educator.

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1:1 Sex and Pleasure Coaching

Deep, personalised sessions to connect you to your body and pleasure.

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Real, raw conversations about sex, pleasure, embodiment, and feminine power.

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Tools and practices to start reclaiming your pleasure, experience a guided somatic practice.

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"Honestly, sometimes you don’t realise how much you actually need the support until you’re in the container. I didn’t feel like I NEEDED it, until the first session when I dropped in with Em and felt like a huge weight was lifted off of my chest. It was like sitting on a call with a bestie, but being able to have the floor to talk about EVERYTHING taboo and it being met with acceptance and support."

- Sophie
"I feel all women would benefit from coaching with Emily, I looked forward to our sessions knowing that there was not any pressure but I’d gain a lot from it. All women need space to be witnessed, to express and to explore their body under the guidance and support of another women who fully embodies her work."

- Kat
"If you’re considering taking the leap to work with Emily, you have that nudge for a reason! I can’t recommend Emily highly enough. She is extremely knowledgeable and empathetic and has the ability to make you feel completely at ease. I now have so many practical tools to implement that have been super beneficial for me and my relationship."

- Nikki
"Emily offers such a safe, respectful, judgment-free space to explore themes that can feel edgy or taboo for so many of us. If fear is the only thing holding you back from working with Emily, know that you're in wonderfully safe hands."

- Rachael Stella
"Emily helped me come back to my centre, ground into my body, connect the dots, receive the messages I was struggling to see alone & release new levels of Insecurity. These sessions are like a shot of whiskey in a tea cup. A loving hug and a fire in your heart to carry you forth"

- Holly
"I had such an interesting session with Emily, she helped me identify what emotions were holding me back and worked through releasing them. She was amazing and talking me through the session and holding such a safe space for me to open up. I felt so so at peace, comfortable, open to receiving and working through feeling safer to feel deserving. I had so many insights for how to move forward and gave me embodiment task to. Emily is a truly beautiful facilitator"

- Lucy
"Emily was absolutely amazing, I can't really explain it but after our session I felt a massive shift in energy, my body felt lighter AND I truly let go, that night everything fell into place. Emily helped me align and release what needed to be let go of to step further into my power. I would highly recommend her"

- L

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FAQs

Emily Matthews is a Melbourne-based women’s sex coach, integrative educator, and pleasure expert. She helps women reconnect with their bodies, reclaim desire, and experience pleasure fully — whether single or in a relationship. Learn more About Emily.
A women’s sex coach guides you to understand your sexuality, explore desire, communicate your needs, and embody pleasure. Unlike therapy, sex coaching focuses on practical tools, embodiment, and real-life sexual empowerment.
Somatic sex coaching combines body-based practices, nervous system awareness, and embodiment to help women feel safe, express desire, and fully experience pleasure.
Integrative sex coaching expands on somatic sex coaching by adding a health science informed layer and is a specific modality created by Gynecologist and Medical Doctor Isabela Bottura and renowned women’s sex coach Bonnie Bliss, both of whom I have trained under in their 500hr Integrative Sex Coaching and Education Certificate.
You’re ready if you feel disconnected from your desire, curious to explore your sexuality, want more pleasure in life, or want to reignite intimacy in a relationship. If you’re asking these questions, coaching can help you reclaim your confidence, curiosity, and aliveness. I’d love to have a call with you to see if we are a good fit and now is a good time. You can book a free Chemistry Call here or find out more about 1:1 Coaching Here.
Coaching focuses on practical, actionable strategies and somatic embodiment, whereas therapy often focuses on past trauma or psychological processing. Coaching empowers you to take immediate steps toward sexual confidence, pleasure, and desire in your life.